“You tell yourself it doesn’t matter that he hasn’t proposed yet, and deep down it really bothers you. You know he loves you, and yet he does nothing to move the relationship forward, in fact it has actually kind of stalled! Why does he drag his feet? Part of you wonders if he is really fully committed to you, and it causes you to feel insecure. This leads to tension and arguments in the relationship, which just pushes him away further – it’s a vicious cycle.”
You’ve tried being patient, you have tried being nice. You try to see things from his point of view and be ‘cool’ about where things are going, however inevitably sooner or later it gets to you and you end up complaining about the lack of commitment in your relationship, or worse you get really emotional and spew all your anger and upset over him, which just makes everything worse! Then you feel guilty and start beating yourself up – you think “no wonder he doesn’t want to marry me!’
If this does sound familiar my heart goes out to you because I have been where you are at, and it is the most frustrating and frankly painful place to be in!
My last relationship, before I met my husband, broke down because of the distance that had grown between me and my boyfriend at the time. He had started out at the beginning of our relationship saying that he wanted to marry me, then as the years went by he grew suspiciously quiet about it. When I asked him about it he clammed up and didn’t want to talk about it, which just made me feel worse.
I became an insecure wreck as my self esteem went down. There is something terrible that happens inside a woman when she is not sure if her man really wants her. As a result of this the relationship went on a downward spiral – we argued more and more often, the distance grew, the affection diminished and then the sex stopped. Wow did I feel undesirable!
The absolute worst part about that time in my life is that within a couple of months of breaking up with me he was married to someone else!
I was in so much pain that I swore I would never be in that position with a man again. I proceeded to learn everything I could about men, relationships and commitment, and I tried out what I learned in my own love life with dramatic results!
What I learned and practiced in my own love life brought me my husband, who was fully committed to me without question from the get go. I’ve since used the same approach to coach hundreds of other women in ‘less than fully committed’ relationships to successfully inspire their man to step up.
The results are nothing short of amazing. Now I have put all of what I learned – the exact process that I and the other women I coached used – into my Ebook to share with you, so that you too can benefit from this unique approach. Some women have referred to it as ‘magic’ although it really isn’t. However it is unlike any other approach for your relationship you have seen or tried before. And it works.
“If you’d like to be married, this e-book will help. It’s an easy but challenging read – from the organization to the detailed exercises that will have you getting very clear on what you desire to indeed be able to manifest it. Julie Ritchie is all heart giving you a deeply feminine approach to finding your beloved.”
In the Ebook I share the exact process I used to inspire my husband to propose to me, and the reasons why he stays fully committed to me to this very day. This is the same process that many other women have since used to light a fire under the tails of their men who were previously ‘unsure’ about marriage, or who were not fully committing within the relationship.
I go through everything step by step so that you know exactly what to do to quell any insecurities inside of you, raise your self worth and become the woman he can’t live without (and he won’t want to!). In reading this book you will feel stronger and you will learn how to be a true Empowered Feminine Energy Woman.
You will learn how to speak to him in a way he can actually hear, and how to use your emotions as a juicy, real woman, to actually bring him closer rather than push him away! (When you get this he will be seriously turned on to you).
The Ebook also contains exercises for you to do which will help you explore yourself and how you are showing up in the relationship, as well as practical tools for improving communication between the two of you. If the romance and affection have gone away be prepared for them to return in a big way!
Once you start practicing what you learn in the book and implementing the tools, you will see a change in your man. If he is currently dragging his feet around commitment, watch as this situation magically transforms, to the point where he will be the one suggesting a commitment and showing up with the ring!
Women have used this approach to create a turn-around in seemingly ‘impossible’ situations and with even difficult men.
I’m going to walk you through this tried and tested process step by step, so that no matter where you are starting out from in your love life you will be able to create the relationship you desire and get a proposal.
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